My dear friend who's been a single mother for five years now recently called me to share the good news.

She sounded so happy that I was excited to meet up and listen to what could have triggered this heightened emotion of joy. To cut the long story, she had been seeing this guy for some months now.

Initially, she was scared to disclose to him that she had a child but I encouraged her and she did. Well guy-man didn't leave o. And guess what heart lovers ❤️, he proposed.

Like seriously he asked her to marry him. She kept gushing and saying God answers prayers.

I am indeed happy for her and wish her so much happiness .This dude has never been married sha or had any kids and he wants to start his life with someone who's been through that already( not saying it's wrong o).

Some men don't really care and believe it's the heart that matters. What about you heart lovers ❤️, as a guy would you engage and marry a woman who's had children for another or other men?

Does her past matter or will you be willing to take both her and her children and love them unconditionally? When you start making babies together, would you still give her children the preeminence or will you start to rate your own kids first?

Heart Lovers( please ladies should join this convo also), what do you think and say on this?

Let's meet in the comments and really talk and learn together.

Much love my people ❤️.