Being in a 'friend zone' as the saying goes can be a really emotionally turbulent and nerve wracking experience. The friend zone is an emotional middle ground where you continue interacting with someone you like as just friends. It is painful because here you are with someone you desire and yet cannot proceed beyond mere conversations.

The friend zone is a place where women place men that they want to keep around them for company but feel they are not good enough to date.

Quite a number of men continue being around their love interest in hopes that she'll someday come to see them the way they see her.

Eventually, the 'waiting would be lover' ends up feeling drained and used with no reward.

To get out of the friend zone, first disconnect every tie binding you to your love interest. Make yourself scarce, reconnect with your inner self and find new ways to develop yourself in everyway that matters to you.

The only way they will value you more is when they see that you are not as accessible as you used to.

The funny thing about the human psyche is that people only tend to miss and value you when you no longer stick around to be used as an emotional buffer without any gain.

As we step into the weekend today, make up your mind to quit being somebody's option and choose yourself all over and very soon you will see positive changes in your love life.

Are you currently in an emotional fix where your feelings are not being reciprocated or are you on someone's love waiting list as a fall back plan or just mere friends for life or do you have any issue disturbing your peace and you feel like sharing?

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Enjoy your weekend and keep on loving and living.