I wrote yesterday about being consistently committed in and to our relationships. Today, our focus will be on striking a balance and knowing when to put in more effort or when to have a rethink and repositioning of feelings.

Every farmer knows that having good seeds is not just enough, what's more vital is the nature or quality of soil the seeds are planted in.

Many people going through one or more challenges in their love life might think they are not doing or giving enough but sometimes what you need to change is your soil. Not everyone is capable of receiving your love and loving you in return.

So you might find yourself in a vicious cycle of unreciprocated feelings whilst still thinking it's because your love isn't good enough or maybe you are flawed..

Guess what, a pearl on a swine will end up in the dirt.

Take time today to reanalyze your love situation and ask yourself this: are your love seeds not good enough or it's just you loving and sowing in the wrong heart??

Always remember, nobody can LOVE YOU better than YOU.

Peace and Love.