One of my guys was gisting me about his plans for his other babe's upcoming birthday. This my guy has a girlfriend he's been with for over three years o.

When I asked him why he is multi-dating, he said he's just keeping his options open 'just in case' so he doesn't go through again what one of his exes put him through before.

I could understand his point of view from the angle that he had been hurt before and had learnt to protect his interest first.

So I thought to bring it to today's forum, heart lovers ❤️, we really need your comments here, don't just read and move on but please lets share opinions and experience here.

Would you keep other alternatives as backup whilst still being in a serious relationship or is exclusivity and total faithfulness the only thing for you?