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SoulReader
3 months ago
I sometimes ask myself when it's right to stay and best to let go. Falling in love is not so easy because it takes courage to give one's heart to another. It's usually safer to play it cool and avoid commitment.
So, despite all the fears, if I eventually give myself to someone, I'd expect the feelings to be reciprocated.
If the one I love doesn't feel same or give back, it's quite natural to assume I'm not doing enough and try to do more or better.
Sadly, it's been proven over again that doing more doesn't necessarily mean it will change anything and the object of my affections might even feel pressured or irritated to put it mildly.
Therefore heart lovers ❤️, when is it actually okay to give-in and let go without feeling like one didn't do enough? Is it wise to keep on trying in hopes that someday love will grow in the heart of your chosen one or do you think it's best to just save the stress and move -on quickly to better things?
Let's hear your take on this in the comments and please keep your stories coming in our July Love or Leave Challenge.
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