A friend of mine was gisting me the other day about his immediate ex who reached out and asked to see him. Apparently, they've started talking again and I could see how excited he was that "she was finally back" in his words.

Whilst I am genuinely happy for him and wish him the best, I couldn't help but wonder if it's a such a good idea to get back with (or go back to ) an ex who hurt you by abandoning you when you needed them the most?

Is it true that they might have learnt their lessons and seek a genuine reconnection or is it something to be compared to a dog going back to it's vomit?

Heart Lovers ❤️, what's your take on this cogent issue? Would you take back an ex or try and reconnect with an old flame?

The comments section is open and we are curious to hear from you.