I saw this on TikTok, where a man was asking people for their opinions, and honestly, his story got me thinking.
He explained that he still sends money to his ex-girlfriend every month because she hasn't been able to get back on her feet financially since they broke up.
According to him, they didn't end their relationship because of cheating, betrayal or any bad experience. They genuinely loved each other, but eventually realised their union wasn't compatible because they were both AS (according to his explanation), and things simply weren't working out.
Despite moving on, he still cares deeply about her. He says he cannot just watch someone he once gave his heart to struggle, especially when he can afford to help.
However, his current girlfriend isn't having any of it. She believes that sending his ex money every month means he still has feelings for her. She has given him an ultimatum: Stop sending her money or lose me.
Now, the man is considering secretly sending the money to his ex so his current girlfriend won't find out.
He insists that he has no romantic intentions towards his ex, but he also admits that he cannot completely unlove someone who once meant so much to him.
What would you do in his shoes? Is he wrong for helping his ex, or is his girlfriend right to be uncomfortable?
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