A member wrote in anonymously seeking our advice.

Please let us kindly advice on what she should do.

Here it goes::

Good morning SoulReader. Lovely work you are doing here. I enjoy your posts and your partner's ( Sommytex ). Please keep me anonymous. I have been dating this guy for 4 years and I am in love with him. The challenge is he is not financially stable enough to propose.

I have met his family and they love me so much.

I am 29 years old and my mother has been complaining about me bringing home a man.

Around May this year, I met this man and he seems to like me so much and has even shown serious intentions in marrying me.

Right now, I'm so confused because I love my babe but I am afraid that he might not be ready early enough to marry me. What if he gets financially okay and he thinks I am too old..

Shouid I give this new guy a chance and seize this opportunity to settle down once and for all.

Please post this and I will be waiting for your advice in the comments section.

Thank you and God bless you.

So heart lovers ❤️, a fellow heart lover ❤️ needs our advice. Kindly post your advice in the comments and let's help this heart in need of direction.

SoulReader's Take:

I'll advice you really take sometime to sit and talk with your man. Please realize that you do not need so much to settle down and if you and your beau can come together and plan, you can work something out.

Do not act under desperation and make a wrong move. Cheers

Over to you heart lovers ❤️